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“This ain’t no intro, this the entree.” – Chance the Rapper

So, I know it’s been awhile. I assure you it has been for good reason. I’ve always been transparent, and at times, maybe a little too transparent. Nevertheless, here goes it. On May 12th, 2016 I lost my full time job. It was a long time coming and something I sort of expected being that I worked in a call center environment. Now, before you get to judging, it wasn’t a regular call center job. I didn’t work in collections, I didn’t cold call or get cussed out all day….. I did retirement counseling over the phone. I was good at my job and I was comfortable. Very.

As a creative, behind a desk answering phone calls you can imagine the type of miserable I was. The word “drained” would be a total misuse of the english dictionary. While I was working there I was diagnosed with chronic depression and an anxiety disorder in which I was prescribed medication for. I was having multiple panic attacks per day. PER DAMN DAY!  

At some point over my four year stint I died inside and stopped doing anything and everything that made me happy, only doing what was necessary to survive. My schedule was as follows:

  1. Wake up.
  2. Go to work.
  3. Die at work.
  4. Leave work.
  5. Be a mom.

All I had room to do when I got home was sleep. And I did that well. So much so that the rest of my dreams died, slowly and effectively.

So, on May 12th, 2016 as I was being escorted out of the building a few things happened. One, I was hummmmmmmbled! Two, the worry of how I would survive came rushing over me like your mother leaving bible study for a date. Three, the silver lining knocked the breath out of me.  Over the years many people urged me to quit, told me I had no business wearing a head set, that I was meant for something far greater. I finally believe them. And this is my time.

I want to put my struggle out here. There will be good, there will be bad, there will be horrible and there will be great . But, I want this space to be a sanctuary of this process. And well, I bought the domain, so…..

You guys will be seeing a lot of me. Because, well. I mean. #IGotTimeFoDat